Understanding Abuse

Abuse is a pattern of behaviour used to establish power and control over another person.

Physical abuse often begins with what is excused as trivial contacts which escalate into more frequent and serious attacks. This abuse includes: shoving, slapping, punching, pushing, pinching, hair-pulling.

Physical attack is often accompanied by, or culminates in sexual violence.

Power & Control

Power, control, and domination are at the hub of this type of relationship.

Remember: Violence Is always A Crime.

Cycle of Abuse

Honeymoon period - includes apologies, promises to change, blaming and gifts.

Tension building -includes criticism, yelling, swearing, coercion, threats and using angry gestures

Explosion - includes physical, emotional and sexual attacks and threats.

Abuse Continuum

Abuse can be physical, emotional, verbal, or sexual.
All abuse has psychological consequences.

Since power and control are the reasons for abuse, anger and intimidation are nearly always present in an abusive situation.

A Critical Need

Community agencies in New Westminster, along with the provincial government, identified a transition house as a number one priority for residents of New Westminster. Monarch Place, a six-bedroom transition house, is a response to this critical need.